
book called "Shift Happens" Here is a short quote from pages 31-32
"Shift happens when you let go of attachment to suffering. I have learned
that problems are not fixed; they are simply outgrown. You leave them behind. Thus, to experience healing and wholeness you have to be willing
give up your attachment to the self...
that has made mistakes.
that has experienced failure.
that has suffered illness.
that messed up.
that has been abused.
that was betrayed.
that was once unpopular.
that has been victimized.
that grew up poor.
that was rejected.
that was wrongly accused.
that did not get the love.